nothing to do during lunch hours.. so just read those old email and came across this.. Something meaningful..

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Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. We miss out some warmth in human relationship to give each other support. Treasure what you have. Just a little story for you

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes.When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy playfully went to the medicine bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child showed signs of poisoning the mother took him to the hospital, where he died. The other was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.

QUESTIONS:
>>1. What were the four words?
>2. What is the implication of this story?

>ANSWER
>The husband just said, "I Love You Darling ".

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. He is indeed a genius in human relationships. The child is dead.
He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.

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To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
To be happy with a woman you must understand her a lot and love her with all your heart.


at times, what people need is comfort and not lecturing..

haha.. my colleagues and my in-charge all went for lunch.. only left me with those goin for late lunch.. and my 'boss' just thought im surfin net durin workin hours.. LOL.. hahaha.. her face totally change when i told her now is my lunch time.. she look so ps.. hahaha.. i dun like her.. so fake.. =x

cos this office goin under renovation this weekend.. she agree to what Mr A says but when Mr B came this mornin, she sae dun understand why A so this and not that.. why that and not this.. lolx.. HELLO!! u said ok what~ office politics? it seems so peaceful here but u wont know what lies within..? hahahaha

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when is my cramps goin away???

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how does this sounds? the system engineerin is scarin mi.. lolx.. im so so so not into that.. i rather wait.. ive already spent 2yrs plus.. what's another 6mths..

i dun wan to enter a poly or get a diploma just for the sake of it.
im not goin to spend time studyin wad i dun like and later look back and regret..

im falling asleep after all the filing.. yawnz!!

is it no matter how hard both of us try.. things will still remain the same?

saw ah jin blog got this horoscope thingy.. so here goes..

General behavior: Aries (the ram) loves freedom, and will accept any challenge. You will get impatient if your ideas do not work out immediately and as expected. You are unwilling to follow someone else's suggestions, especially if they do not make sense to you. You often have excess energy which can make you aggressive. Arians are brave leaders who express care and concern for all they lead. However, an Arian as a follower is rare, and can be troublesome. Some Arians will act self-centered because they believe that their views are right, and anyone who conflicts with them is wrong. Because you are open and honest, you will make energetic and generous friends. Arians have trouble compromising which can lead to problems in otherwise smooth friendships.

lolx.. so true tt i will get impatient if things dont work out..
anyway.. who will follow suggestions tt dont make sense??
self-centered..hmmm..i think in the past i was worse than now..?
friendships so far ok what..!!

im smarter than those space monkeys?
haha.. i really wonder if that's a good thing.. LOL

didnt went for lunch.. now slackin in office but cant log into msn.. zzz..
but playin jinjin blog de game.. hahahaha.. ok.. go carry on play my game le..

hmmz.. work todae was alright.. damn sleepy tho.. only sleep for 3 hrs lyk tt.. zzz
todae tried doin the ot calculation cos there was nth else for mi to do.. i thought there was alot.. so did fast fast end up nth.. -.-

the calculation is giving mi a hard time.. lolx.. esp when u are seeing doubles and yawnin away.. ooo.. met tang at yck and go home together.. harry potter this sat..~

mornin reach office feel lyk wan to puke~ and ya.. really did so.. not once.. not twice but thrice! so irritatin.. went to see doctor durin lunch time and she sae i got gastric flu or wad..

so went back office and work till bout 2 like that.. and went back after finishin wad im suppose to do.. went to His house and sleep.. haha.. than accompany him book in..

simple dae.. =)

maybe you are right..

i shouldn't put friends as my priority anymore..
i shouldn't get soft hearted so easily anymore..

or maybe i should learn from others..
relationship over friends..

trust is not the only thing required..
observation and being sensative to one another is equally important..

i shall NOT be that agnes anymore..?
one dae when "enough is enough~"..........

emo-ed

went to meet yx at school around 12 or so than rima join just shortly after tt..

had lunch and join mrs yeo cls for OA.. lolx.. some stuffs i really returned to teacher liao.. but im still better than yx.. LOL =x

after which go J8 to meet rima's frend, rebekah..i think this is the correct spellin.. walk ard.. go arcade and stuffs.. and im so so so tired!~ accompany yx home to take a present meant for our frend's baby..had dinner nearby than took a cab dwn to amk..~

hahahah.. baby was so active.. so tired after playing with him.. hahaha.. had fun tho is tiring la.. sadded when baby cry when we leavin that time.. zzzz.. next time dun go liao.. hahaha..

LOL

i seriously should NOT have trusted her..

FUCK!!

just missing like that leavin mi in a shitty situation..

FUCK!!!

im back~

went shoppin wib yijin ytd.. haha.. actually is buy miss yap de bdae present la.. hahaha..went orchard and search.. at times search halfway we lyk lookin out for our own stuffs lyk that.. -.-

have dinner at pizzahut and it was a nightmare.. till the extend we decided to complain..tian bao stomach le we still continue the search.. miss yap de present not easy to buy ar..~ lol.. stay at orchard from day till night.. so tirin that we decide to take cab to jurong to pass alicia her present and back to woodlands.. lolx..

well.. goin to carry on searching todae.. not sure where yet but see how lo..

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had a small arguement wib Him last nitex.. really i wan to puke blood.. its very irritating havin to keep on repeatin myself.. gettin on my nerves..

and some friends needs to reshuffle..